Always, forever, and ever and …………….how long?

These words are often expressed with passion, a determined commitment and faith in the moment.

Sometimes that moment of consent lasts until the next orgasm for a client.

Sometimes that moment of consent is again and again confirmed by continuing mutual sharing, planning and companionship that goes on without interruption. More power to them; yippee!

Sometimes that consent is given even before the relationship begins. Such is the case with a boy I am meeting for the first time tomorrow—He has not even met me yet he is passionate in his desire to submit to a 24/7 tpe—from his infant understanding way low in the learning curve. I wonder if it will still be there after being grilled by me for several hours!? This could play out so very many ways.

When you add the wonderful and exciting details of power exchange on it, relationships become even more complicated. No matter how “old” you are in the scene, or how new and uninformed you might be; remember to not take consent for granted. Remember to not take the relationship for granted. Making assumptions on either of those could lead to misunderstanding and damaged relationship.

I like to have weekly meetings with My family members and a weekly date with the individuals. During these meetings I am mindful that there is always an additional “character” at the conversation. That character is the objectified relationship.

Looking at your relationships as an object can reveal the health of it; what is your attitude toward it, what do you want from it –maybe something you are not getting? Are you communicating in fairness and honesty? Even in a power exchange—the slave must be able to state his needs without judgment or disrespect.

Then as you look at each other, the slave on his knees, the Mistress from her chair—or other scenario—you will know that you both seek the relationship with all its consent secured for another moment.